Labs Kita, Okey Ka Lang: Hit with the Millennials

Late last Sunday night, the digitally restored version of one of the most memorable Pinoy hugot movies was aired. Both my girls know Jolina Magdangal as the Momshie they get to see hosting Magandang Buhay on weekday mornings and that made them a lot more interested with the movie. Again, it was aired past midnight already so I only allowed them to see the first few scenes. But does not include this scene recorded by my elder daughter’s friend…

Bujoy: Yes kaibigan mo ko … kaibigan mo LANG ako! And that’s all I ever was to you Ned – your best friend. Takbuhan mo kapag may problema ka. Taga sunod, taga bigay ng advice, taga enroll… taga-gawa ng assignment. Taga pagpatawa sa iyo kapag nalulungkot ka, taga-tanggap ng kahit na ano. And I’m so stupid for making the biggest mistake of falling in love with my best friend! Dahil kahit kailan hindi mo naman ako makikita eh. Kahit kailan hindi mo ako kayang mahalin na higit pa sa isang kaibigan.”

Ned: “Bujoy … Bujoy..”

Bujoy: Ngayong alam mo na, I think you can get out of my life!”

Ned: Bujoy, mahal kita! Mahal kita Bujoy! Mahal na mahal kita kaya siguro duwag ako. Kung magka-relasyon tayo, paano kung masaktan kita? Baka yung Bujoy na kaibigan ko mawala pa. Bujoy, hindi ko kayang mawala ka sa buhay ko.”

Apparently, it was not just my daughters who actually wanted to stay up that late to see the movie. Jolina and Marvin’s movie was a hit during our teenage years in 1998 and it is still because of the relatable story. Bujoy (Jolina Magdangal) and Ned (Marvin Agustin) are childhood best friends who really treated each other like a family. It was only until they started to date other people when Ned realized he loves Bujoy who has long kept her love for her childhood friend. The realization then led to that particular scene above.

Millennials were shookt! Those who were “Friendzoned” sometime in their lives, especially! A lot were able to relate their own stories to other scenes too if not this one. Famous lines, photos and video clips from the movie has somehow trended in Twitter and on Instagram. Someone from IG even said: “2018 na pero yung kilig feels 1998 pa rin.” Instagram user “fkwlf2_ (I honestly like this best) posted a photo of a scene and captioned:

“Yung feeling na isang linggo ko itong inabangan and yes natapos ko siya and worth it! Huhuhu Nakakakilig na nakakaiyak, worth it ang puyat. Worth to watch! Yung hihilingin mo na lang na sana nabuhay ka na sa panahon na yan. Sheemmmsss yung walang internet walang gadgets, yung aamin yung crush mo sayo ng harapan at hindi sa messenger. Pinakadabest na panahon to para sa akin kahit di pa ko buhay niyan at thank God napanuod ko itong napakagandang movie na ito at feeling ko tuloy batang 90s ako. Sarap ulit ulitin!!”

And a lot others expressed their hopes for a sequel. Perhaps what happened after 20 years?

*video credit: eveanecy

Disciplined Saving for the Future Starts Now

One great mistake that individuals can make is to delay on beginning an investment fund. This is most pertinent to young people who depend on their folks for monetary help. Mostly Millennials who are keeping up with the Y.O.L.O. attitude. Indeed, even the individuals who are as of now ready to take a shot along the edge do as such to have cash for particular spending needs instead of to have somewhat more cash to spare. We always hear people say that it is best to practice the “save before you spend” attitude. This can be practiced by students too. As soon as they get their allowance from their folks, they would already be able to set aside a little sum for their funds. Through time, the little amount they consistently spare will gather to a greater sum. This definitely take considerable measure of discipline to effectively pull off. These ought to be minor worries that ought to effortlessly be dismissed when the significance of setting up a reserve fund support is realized and achieved.

Little kids can start saving with spare coins. Older kids can already set up a bank savings account and practice saving up on a monthly basis. Cash gifts during birthdays and Christmas could be added to the savings as well. Disciplined savings should start at an early age until such time it turns into a habit…a good one in fact. I often hear my Mom when I was young saying that “Every cent is important as you will never have a hundred if you do not start with a peso.”

Financial needs today and in the future is something of certainty but its availability is not. Time is in favor for the Millennials, so while healthy and able, save for whatever financial need might come… NOW!

Ways to Achieve Your New Year Goals

So what actually happened last 2017 with your goals? Did you focus on travel, relationship or financial goals? We’re you able to achieve what you have targeted? If not, fret not! You do not have to be hard on yourself because there are a lot of people (me included!) who did not perfectly achieved their goals for 2017. Good news is, it is a brand new year. We are all given the chance to start again, continue, add more goals and make new beginnings.

This new year, if we ended way below 100% achieving the goals we have set back then, then there has to be a different approach. New rules and terms has to be implemented. As they most people would say, change is necessary. Start with getting yourself a planner or an unused notebook to keep track of these goals. Might as well list down the goals in front and at the back of your planner. At the end of the year, you can easily check out which ones you have not yet achieved.

Sharing with you are some tips I got from a few financial planning seminars and training I have attended last year that you may want to try as well:

  1. Write down your goals and their terms.
  2. On paydays, pay yourself first.
  3. Avail of a VUL insurance policy. (It is a good Medium to Long Term investment tool)
  4. Eliminate your debt.
  5. Cut down on the amount of TV time. (Unsubscribe to Netflix if you must!)
  6. Turn your hobby into a small business.
  7. Pack your lunch and avoid fast food.
  8. Declutter and do a yard sale.
  9. Avoid out of network ATM fees.
  10. Stick to cash and stop using your debit or credit card if you have one.
  11. Avoid items not in the grocery list.
  12. Walk to work, carpool or take public transportation.
  13. Go DIY (Cards, gifts, coffee and even repairs!)
  14. Exercise and drink more water.
  15. Grow your own veggies.
  16. Quit smoking.
  17. Balance your YOLO attitude.
  18. Focus on your goals. (Eyes on the prize!)

There is no guarantee all these tips will actually help or have a massive effect in achieving your goals but trying them out will sure help YOU. When you become aware and become a lot more observant of your own attitude, then you have improved. You have matured. You become a better version of yourself. And, if you have shared the goals you have set to a family member or a friend, they have learned from you too. Achieving your goals became a happy process in the end, right?

Just keep going and trying for there is a ripple effect in everything. And remember, when you keep trying new things for you to achieve your goals, and you put your heart in it…there is no way you would not get it.

2017’s Best Nine on IG

Here is my 2017’s Instagram Best Nine. I intentionally forgot to post my Best Nine of 2017 on Instagram.  I get to be forgetful but aside from that, is that I am not quite impressed with the results. Ha!Ha! Kidding aside, I am indeed thankful for all the likes I received on these nine images I shared throughout they year 2017. Cheers to more beautiful captures this new year!

 

In all honesty, I was not really that active the whole of 2017 in IG. There were weeks that I did not even glance on posts of the people I follow. But I am really hoping to get back on track on IG sharing and also in blogging. I missed a lot in here! I am in need of reviewing and relearning… a LOT!